Human rights, equality, domination and Me Too are gender issues far too serious to just remain a floundering gabfest. In the final analyses, this is about our boys. Their deficiency is the inadequacy of modelling and quality fathering. It is in the lack of suitable mentoring for young men, who need education in awareness of what constitutes acceptable male behaviour. These are parallel social factors that are currently seen to be unrelated ‘ships in the night’. They are not. They are inseparable.